1st grade: Guys Expectations

Don't we (girls) wish we knew what really is in guys minds? Don't you? Well I know I do thus this past week I decided 2 ask my ninjas (guy friends since it might be offensive to say niggas to some) one of the questions that at least most girls ask themselves "what are guys' expectations in a relationship?" Well I happened to be one of the most inexperience people in the field of relationships thus I kinda had 2 make this small research. Funny how guys jumped to answer this question without hesitation and most have said a common "thing" that they are expecting. Yes! You guessed it's SEX! That was pretty funny 'cause these ninjas didn't even ask in what manner am I asking my question. Well I was asking in a manner of dating a new flavour in spice land, they didn't answer me in a manner that I wanted...but, yeah they mentioned "mature" expectations like loyalty, trust, support, love, RESPECT and all'a that but what stand out was SATISFACTION (which is sex) and RESPECT, 9 out of 10 guys emphasize on these two. I further asked them what is their take of PDA (Public Display Affection), well they said they don't mind holding hands and kissing in public but I have a problem with that because I live in a community were adults regard PDA as DISRESPECTFUL. So I, myself value respect and well, some people regard me as a "RESPECTED and RESPECTFUL" person, quite funny I tell u (story for another day). So does it mean my ninjas care less about that 'community respect'? Anyhu my take on PDA would be to do it when you comfortable with it but do respect your elders and if yall wanna know a bit about guys, then read "Act like a lady, Think like a man" by Steve Harvey, its a good read, I'll keep you updated on further future research! Until next time, Nolu "Love"s You!!!